For John and Brisannie, their love story began in a place of worship. As they stood at the altar in November 2024, they reflected on how their paths first crossed in church. In those quiet moments before the wedding ceremony, John couldn’t help but think, “Look at my future.” And with thoughts of gratitude, Brisannie wondered, “I’m a part of this rib? I’m so grateful.” A moment she likened to the Creation Story. Two separate worlds were about to become one.
Brisannie had always noticed John at church events, and would eagerly anticipate the yearly youth conventions and rallies. She couldn’t deny her attraction to the drummer boy—the way he carried himself, his handsome features, and his vibrant personality drew her in. But it wasn’t until 2018 at an all-night prayer event that John was struck by Brisannie’s beauty and grace. Reminiscent on the moment “…my beautiful wife, I was like wow, wow, just wow” John tried to express in a moment he was at a loss for words. After the event, he took the plunge and made his first move. Their communication and paths drifted, but fate had other plans. In 2020, as John scrolled through Facebook, Brisannie’s profile popped up, and he took it as a sign. Without hesitation, he slid into her DMs.
“I don’t like to beat around the bush. I like to go for what I want,” John said, making his intentions crystal clear.
Brisannie, a bit hesitant at first, took her time to check his page and verify his identity. But when John made his feelings known, something clicked. She knew, right then and there, that she would love John forever. His upbringing, shaped by strong family values and the love he saw in his parents’ marriage was evident in the way he expressed himself.
John, too, knew Brisannie was the one for him. Her caring, loving nature was undeniable, but more than that, he felt understood. “She understands me for who I am,” he shared. “She’s my home, she’s my rock, she’s everything I need”
Mrs. Johnson reminisced about the moment she first realized the depth of their connection. “The world could be falling apart, and his spirit is always optimistic,” she said, recalling how she initially thought their love was too good to be true. But it was a constant she knew she needed in her life.
The dynamic between John’s vibrant, optimistic spirit as a content creator and media professional and Brisannie’s pragmatic, thoughtful approach as a Registered Nurse created a beautiful balance in their relationship. Their worlds, though different, complemented each other perfectly.
After four years of courtship, a phase they both enjoyed, John decided to pop the question that led to them tying the knot. Over the course of dating, they took their time to ensure they were making the right decisions. They weren’t in a rush—they knew they had to work through things; “Yes the love is there but can we work together?” A question they needed to answer before taking this step.
When asked if life changed after marriage, Brisannie reflected thoughtfully. “It is more of a transition than a change. Being a wife is more about accommodating your person,” she said. She emphasized that being best friends makes navigating the challenges of life together much easier.
And how do the Johnson’s keep things fresh?
“We’re always looking for an adventure, new experiences, compromising, and accommodating each other,” Mrs. Johnson shared.
“Love hurts is a misconception. Love doesn’t hurt,” she continued, stressing that while challenges arise in any relationship, but it is how you face them together. True love isn’t about struggling or enduring pain to prove its authenticity. “Love is more than butterflies,” she added. “It’s warmth, comfort, protection. It’s having someone in your circle.”
The newlyweds agree that listening to outside voices could be detrimental to a relationship, especially in today’s world, where social media often sets unrealistic standards that can consume one’s mind. Reiterating that qualifications don’t make a perfect partner; and advise against getting caught up in what outside forces think. “You might miss out on something beautiful. Pray and ask God for guidance,” they advised He’s the ultimate guide. “His plans are to prosper us so you don’t have to go looking for the best, he provides the best”. Brisannie affirmed.
These are the principles that have kept their relationship strong from the very beginning—a foundation rooted in faith, love and trust in each other. The couple looks forward to the legacy they will build together- a goal they say surpasses procreation. For John and Brisannie, their love story is one of faith, patience, and the belief that when you wait for the right person, everything falls into place. From church to forever, their journey together has only just begun as they await the positively exceptional impact they intend on making together.
Written by: Eden Palmer